[#299. Every Asexual is assigned a familiar and that familiar is always a duck.]
A pansexual and an asexual get together and make pancake mix
the term “aro-ace” is especially lovely because it also sounds like “arrow ace.” are you aromantic and asexual or are you an incredibly skilled and deadly archer. surprise, you’re both
Let’s not forget the original arrow ace:
When allosexual people think that I can’t appreciate someone’s appearance without feeling sexual attraction, it makes me wonder if they’re actually projecting, and that they can’t appreciate someone’s appearance without feeling sexual attraction.
as requested, more about demi + greysexuality and why they are important.
Just a little thought of mine
Wearing a black ring on the middle finger of the right hand sometimes indicates that the wearer is asexual. I’ve always found that slightly ironic since the middle finger when raised can be a profane gesture meaning “fuck you” and a lot of asexuals are not interested in literal fucking.
they way I do crushes is like
I have to consciously decide “Okay I want this crush”
I have to kinda work for it??? Then sometimes they take off and it becomes more organic (which is when they bite me in the butt) but mostly they just die in the dark cavern known as “wait nevermind”
And usually when I want to I can just turn them off too. Like “Okay I’m bored I don’t like this game anymore” and I stop.
Like a weirdo.
Is there a… word for this?
i got tired of people mistaking me for bigender so here is a powerpoint
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The four attractions:
Aesthetic: An attraction to other people that is not connected to a desire to do anything with them, either sexually or romantically. They simply appreciate their appearance.
Romantic: A feeling that causes people to desire a romantic relationship with a specific other person. (ex partnership (”boyfriend”, “girlfriend”, ect) Romantic attraction is difficult to define and may vary.
Sensual: A desire to do sensual (but not sexual) things with certain people, especially relating to tactile sensuality such as cuddling.
Sexual: A feeling that sexual people get that causes them to desire sexual contact with a specific other person. It is often, but not always, felt along with other forms of attraction.
If one is asexual, they do not experience sexual attraction.
- someone: what's the farthest you've gone
- me: i think i went out of my room once idk
I mean this is a classic.
Asexual Problems: Tumblr Dashboard Porn
Defining an orientation by the inability to feel sexual or romantic attraction is like defining a maple tree by its inability to produce edible fruit.
It’s technically correct, but it’s kind of shitty, and it ignores the positive qualities that the orientation has.
A maple tree may not make yummy fruit, but there’s no other tree that can make maple syrup.
"Cake is better than sex"